The Art of Letting Go
March 1st, 2011
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by admin · Filed Under: Faith · Guidance · Prayer · Spiritual Health · healing
Have you ever had a feeling of being “at the end of your rope,” hanging on desperately, afraid to let go? If you have, then you know how uncomfortable and devastating it is.
Someone may suggest, “Get hold of yourself; get a new grip on life,” or “When you’re at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.” It may see like good advice, but life is not something to be gripped, to be held onto desperately to keep it from slipping away. Life has hold of you. You do not live life; life lives you. It animates you and expresses itself as you. It is living you this very moment. It will never let you go.
The “hold on for dear life” attitude leads to the kind of mental tension and physical congestion that is at the heart and root of most physical ills. The truth is that no “grip” or “knot” is needed. What is needed is the will to relax and to let go.
Tension, anxiety, fear, and “holding on for dear life” cut off the flow of the vital juices that sustain life. Life will no more, of its own volition, cease to flow through you than the Colorado River would abandon the Grand Canyon. If there is an impediment in the flow of life resulting in weakness and deterioration, it is because unconsciously you have closed off the flow by your tense desire to hang on.
You are never alone. You are not really bobbing about on the seas of life at the mercy of the winds and storms of fate and circumstance. You are a whole creature, an expression of God, completely at one with Infinite Mind, in complete unity with all life. There is no possible way you can be separated from God, any more than a wave can be separated from the ocean.
No matter what is happening in your life, fretting about the conditions never helps you nor anyone else. The apostle Paul says, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Rom. 12:21) Don’t fight the apparent error, the injustice, the darkness. Instead, return to your own point of unity of all life. This “returning” refers to solitude and meditation. When man really believes that life is lived from within out, he will place as much emphasis on the contemplative recharging of his batteries in disciplines of prayer and meditation as he now places on eating.
It is in “returning” that we are not only able to let go; we also gain a growing ability to “let God,” or as Meister Eckhart said, “Let God be God in you.” In letting go, we remove or reduce the obstacles to the flow of Spirit and move toward the experience of the presence and activity of God within us, through us, and as us.
Jesus stresses the importance of what we might call “inner prayer.” He infers strongly that God does not force Himself into man’s consciousness, any more than air forces itself into man’s lungs. The Infinite waits patiently for the recognition and acceptance of the finite.
Jesus says, “When you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” (Matt. 6:6)
Man may be amazingly creative, artistic, productive, inventive, vigorous, powerful and dynamic; all this is the outpicturing or “exhalation” of his true being. But there must also be a regular period of inhalation, or else he will “come to know want.”
Most people are good “achievers” but poor “receivers.” We set our minds on the achievement of things and positions in the world. But because we do not look within for support, we do not receive the wherewithal to keep on achieving. Living beyond our spiritual means, we are overdrawn and overextended. The answer is to get involved in the discipline of solitude and meditation. And to have much success with “inner prayer,” we must cultivate “the art of letting go,” and this takes a lot of practice.
Every one of us must determine for ourselves whether we are going to go through life worrying and fretting over the challenges that come through change, or whether we are going to let the activity of the whole Spirit of God (Holy Spirit) express in and through us. Letting go and letting God is a fine art, achieved only through the discipline of practice. Fear tends to hold on, but faith lets go. Practice faith. Human love holds on, but Divine Love lets go. Practice Divine Love. “Let God be God in you.”
Remember, God is Blessing You, Right Now!
Rev. Alan A. Rowbotham
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