A Heart Act to Follow
April 11th, 2012
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by admin · Filed Under: Faith · Guidance · Spiritual Health · healing
You’ve heard of the saying, “It’s a hard act to follow.” And that certainly might be said about the story of the resurrection. However, I suggest it was not a hard act but a heart act. It was a heart act, an act of love, of reaching beyond seeming human limitations to draw on the strength and the power of the living God.
We can follow that heart act in our own lives. Even in the midst of our losses, even in the midst of challenges and when we don’t understand them there is a presence and a power to draw upon that is enfolded in and contained within us, the very love of God. The presence of God is the presence of love within us; our true nature is that of love. As we let that be our focus we can begin to make our lives a heart act instead of a hard act.
We often struggle with our lives and make it a really hard act. But we can change that and instead make it a heart act. Sometimes it comes through suffering and loss. When we experience challenge or loss, our hearts often seem to become paralyzed, we don’t know what to do, we become stuck, and we are not able to move on. We get in our heads to see what’s going on and we don’t come into our hearts because it’s just too painful.
It reminds me of the true story of a young man who was twenty-four years old and had bone cancer and had to have his leg amputated from the hip. He became a patient of Dr. Rachel Naomi Ramen, who worked with him for two years to try to bring him into a new sense of himself after the tremendous loss he had experienced. He was embittered, angry, and even full of hate toward people who were well.
So she had to work with him to have him understand that he had lost not only his leg but much more than that. He had lost the sense of his own personhood, the sense of his own being, the sense of his oneness with God. She had to help him reflect upon what had happened, to look at it and sit with it, not to avoid it but to look at it.
She had him draw his life and draw how his body looked, how he felt about himself, and to try to tap into his deeper inner self.
It was toward the end of the two years she worked with him that he really started to come out of it and he began to visit hospital patients that had experienced serious losses of their own.
He lived in Palo Alto, California, and one hot day he was going to the hospital wearing shorts and of course his prosthesis, his artificial leg, could be seen. He walked into the room of a young woman about his own age that was deep in depression because of the loss of both breasts. She was so depressed she wouldn’t even look at him.
The nurse had left the radio on in the room to try to cheer her up a bit, but she was just lying there with her face turned away from him. At first he didn’t know what to do, so to get her attention he unstrapped his leg and took his prosthesis off. Then he started dancing around on one leg and snapping his fingers to the music. He came around the bed so she could see him dancing. At first she ignored him and then she took a little look. Finally she burst out laughing and said, “If you can dance, man, I can sing.” Her response to her loss changed in that moment.
Dr. Ramen said that, after the two years, she was reviewing his progress and they were looking through some of the drawings he had done. They came across a drawing of a vase that had a deep crack in it. She had asked him to draw a picture of his body as he saw it, and he drew the picture of the vase with the deep crack across it. She remembered that when he drew that, he was gritting his teeth with anger and rage and bearing down hard on that crack across the vase. He saw that vase as his life that was broken and would not hold water any more.
As they went through the pictures, he saw that one. He took it and said, “You know, this one isn’t finished yet.” And she said to him, “Well, would you like to finish it now?” He said, “Yes, I would.” He took a yellow crayon and he put his finger on the crack in the vase and he said, “You see this crack? This is where the light comes from.” And he began to draw streams of light coming out of that crack in the vase.
We can become strong at the broken places, because there is a power and a love there for us that endures and which we can draw upon through all situations. Yes, he had sustained a great loss but that great loss turned into triumph once he began to feel his own wholeness and he was able to touch people’s lives in a new way. Yes, he may have lost a leg, but he hadn’t lost his true being. That’s the important thing.
What is the image that you carry about the losses in your own life? Is it time for you to revisit that image and let the light of God’s presence stream forth with new life? It’s a heart act you can follow.
Remember, God is Blessing You, Right Now!
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